(This post perhaps won’t endear me to my darling male readers)
In my fantasies I frequently envision myself kneeling down in front of a man and incapacitating him with my skill, tongue and sucking. As I work on his cock he becomes in capable of forming a coherent word or thought.
For me, this is ideal. When I am performing this act on a man I consider it a gift. And I want to own it and control where I go with it.
Some women love giving blow jobs. The crave it. They feel incomplete after an encounter if they haven’t had the chance to take him in their mouth.
Me? not so much. I’m not one of those women who hate it and refuse to swallow or anything like that. But I am decidedly neutral on the subject. I have to be in the mood.
It actually causes me more than a little bit of pain – I’ve had jaw issues for years. I haven’t chewed gum since high school. The more blow jobs I give – the quicker the pain comes. So the first time in a while I can handle OK. But doing it again too soon? Well, you better cum fast honey, cause I can’t linger.
So as far as I’m concerned? Blow jobs have to be somewhat of a special treat. And I want to be in control. I absolutely abhor men who push down on my head while doing it. A not-so-subtle hint that he would like me to go deeper.
I wonder how their egos would take it if I started demanding that they thrust deeper? Oh, that’s as far as you can go? Oops!
Ahem. Anyhow. I had a boyfriend once who had the audacity to compare me to another girl in the oral sex department. I was much younger and therefore more insecure back then, so he should consider himself fortunate that I simply took his comments as a personal challenge to give him the best blow job of his 19 years.
The next person I dated called them “hummers.” Perhaps because of the pleasurable sensation a man feels when the woman hums in the midst of it? I’ve never heard anyone use the expression before or since. But I do find it difficult to mention the vehicle of the same name with a straight face now.
So back to the incoherence – I prefer my men to end up in this state for a variety of reasons:
a) He’s happy so he won’t get all pushy on my head
b) It will most likely end quickly so I’m not in as much pain
c) Who doesn’t like their partner to be mindless with bliss?
Anyone else have some less traditional thoughts on blowjobs?