Bring on the Duchess

So I am 33 and single. I haven’t had sex in 11 months, and haven’t had it in a committed relationship in …well years.

So you know how all the dating sites have 3 categories? “Dating” “Relationship” and “Booty Call” or some such equivalent?

Well I’ve been dipping my toes in the first two categories off and on for a few years now. I don’t take it too seriously, but I haven’t met with much success on any of the sites I’ve tried.

So for kicks this weekend I signed up for category 3. You know, the “intimate encounters” or whatever section…

In 5 minutes I got as much response as I generally get in a few months in the other categories.
I sign in and I can easily have about 5 or 6 conversations going with different men within about 10 minutes. I think they smell fresh meat or something.

So this blog? This will be archiving all the action I get on there. Not necessarily that kind of action. But who I meet. Who I even just chat with. And yes, perhaps eventually who I have sex with.

Have I mentioned, 11 months??

Now before anyone thinks that I’m going to cause myself some sort of psychological damage, don’t worry. I’ve given myself all the speeches already.

This is just a non-emotional way to get myself back out there. Maybe I’ll have sex, maybe I won’t. But these men have seen photos of me, and they’ve been effusively complimentary. I don’t have any nude shots up. Since I’m not model thin, I don’t feel confident enough to do so. Yet.

Now, I do have another blog. Some of you may recognize me from there. I’m cool with that if you do. But since my other place is pretty fluffy and G-rated, and to be honest, pretty available for the whole world to find – I thought I would start this new one.

So there’s my intro. This may be a brief experiment. But I’m hoping it helps me get my sexy back and start me back on my way to confidence and flirtiness.